Not My Type

Tank: JcPenney   Skirt: Forever 21   Bag: Rue 21   Boots: Just Fab
This cheeky tank earned a hearty chuckle from my Spinning instructor when I wore it to class. She's simultaneously my online Humanities instructor and I've taken Spinning from her in the past, so we have a pretty good relationship as far as instructors and students go.
"Well honestly, how do you expect to meet anyone now with that top?"
"Oh this? I bought this after that awful date. I've given up now. Also, if I run into him on campus, I'm keeping this around to whip out whenever I need it."

I should know better than to agree to go window shopping with a friend. Window shopping rapidly turns into actual shopping for me...which is how I landed this cute new muscle tank! I also picked up another tank similar to this, which I'm sure I'll be showing off soon.

This skirt is something I instinctively added to my cart while browsing Forever 21 a while ago. The wrap design and asymmetrical hem had me hooked! However, this is the first time I've actually worn it. The shortness of it definitely makes me self conscious...while I love it, I think I'd be comfortable if I wore tights with it. This may have to be set aside until next fall rolls around.

Anyway, speaking of types, you know what isn't my type?
People who are so incredibly self centered they will do or say anything that makes them look good. People who have inflated egos because of their position and put others down because of this. People who love to feel in control and go on power trips because of this.

Don't be this type of person, okay?
If you accomplish something, be humble.
If someone can't be as successful because of the large number of things they have on their plate, be understanding. Condescension is not necessary.

If there's anything that working with a group has taught me, it's that these types exist. Though abrasive and difficult to get along with, you can learn from them.
You can learn what not to be like.
All I would like to say is: "Yes, you are better at this than me. But you know what? You're not a better person because of it. And I think that's where you need to reconsider your priorities."

Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. It is better to be of a lowly spirit with the poor than to divide the spoil with the proud.
Proverbs 16:18-19

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Mili said...

You rock the skirt! Tights or no tights. And the shirt is so sassy ;) Love it!



awesome outfit linda! i just love that singlet, and you did a great job styling it!


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Maria Eguia said...

Really dig the stacking and the whole black and gold thing going on :)

Maiken said...

oh I love that skirt! and those booties and the bag. such a fabulous trio! haha and I'm sure that top will not shoo away all the guys since guys should like challenges, don't you think? ;)

Maikeni blogi - part of me

Peet said...

Ugh, inflated egos that's one of my pet peeves, I can't stand arrogant people. Humble is definitely the right way to go about things. Although, I think that can sometimes cross over to the lack of confidence which is a negative personal trait too, but I can work with that. But the opposite end of the spectrum - no, thank you. I'm not even going to waste my time getting to know you better. You love yourself too much? BYE. Not my type.:) Can I please have your top???:D

Mica T said...

That is a fun tank :)

I like the texture on the skirt too - it will be perfect with tights in cooler weather! :)

Away From Blue


Love the humour of the tank! But, those boots are my favourite! :)

Sam said...

Hi Linda, this tank is so cute, I need to borrow it when you're done *winks*, I agree with you on whats not your type, I think those things are important to avoid in a guy. Love the fringed bag and boots with it. Have a great start to the weekend hun!

JANICE G said...

cute shirt

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Hadrien Leite said...

Super cool oufit
very nice pics
Great Blog and work

Coco said...

You look great dear, and I agree on window shopping :-)
Coco et La vie en rose / Bloglovin / Facebook

Kim Alston said...

That top made me giggle! HAHAHA I need one of those. With a finger pointing at the person. HAHAHA Love the skirt. It looks great on you doll.

nancy @ adore to adorn said...

I'm totally with ya...humility goes a LONG LONG way. There's something to be said of a person who can accomplish a lot without having a huge ego. By no means be a push over but, please don't make me feel second-rate in the process.

Anyway, on to your look. Super fun. I like the playfulness of the shirt. You should wear what you want. even on a date! =D


Mimi said...

I dont like that type of person either. Hopefuly someday they will change their ways. But I DO love your fringe bag. Now tHAT is my type! Beautiful, loving everything!
Aesthetic Lounge

caffinatedlove said...

Man, you always know what to write about in your blog that I've been thinking about lately. I feel like the same person is not our type. ;)

on another note, adorable shirt and what a cheeky, sassy way to style it. And your spin instructor sounds awesome. ^_^


Alexandra Zakharova said...

This top looks so edgy and original, you look like a rock star :) Those photographs are so cool!
Wish you a great day ahead)

Anna said...

very funny tee hihi

xxx Anna
A Tale of Two Shoes

Sam said...

Thanks for your kind visit, hope you're having a wonderful weekend.

Toks said...

No Linda, definately do not put the skirt aside until fall rolls around again, it looks great on you without tights and it's certainly not too short. The top is so cute and I love the way you've paired the outfit with the booties.
Happy Sunday hon!

Amanda said...

Heheh! I love what you say about being humble! And I m in love with your skirt and top! Let us know about the guys reaction if he catches you in it =)

Kati said...

So true - some people can be right pains in the butt about what they own, achieved or were given to...

Anyways, great top!


Tanya Minxy said...

I love this look! That tank is sooo rad and I like your stories as always =^.^=

Dario Venuti said...

beautiful look


Mom Fashion World said...

Cool tee!

Kelsey Bang said...

love the tee! you styled it so fun and awesome! Love the fringe bag and boots!

Sonia De Macedo said...

Hahaha window shopping always translates to purchases for me also. I think that's why I prefer online shopping. It gives me time to contemplate if I should or shouldn't rather than holding it in my very hands!


Kathleen Kao said...

hahaha omg i love that tee linda! and that skirt is so fab! :D

Izzy said...

love this casual edgy look! and haha they're right, how can you meet anyone with this tee on xD would be funny to wear on a blind date though lol.

Metallic Paws

Nicole K. said...

Ahahaha, you always have great stories to go along with every outfit!! :P Great answer xD && I totally agree with you.. I'm not too fond with those type of people either. But you can't change people, right? It's only up to ourselves to be our best self. :) Lovely outfit here! I love the top, and I think I might just need it too- it's quite handy!! :P Have a great week! xx

Chic Nikkie 


Very well said! Love reading your blog. The skirt made a statement for me :)


Sam said...

Wishing you a fruitful week ahead hun!

Chloe, Wardrobe Quarry said...

I love this outfit. Especially loving that quilted leather skirt!

Wardrobe Quarry

Emma Walker said...

Love this!

Emma| With A City Dream

Anonymous said...

LOVE this cute!!

Layla xx

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