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Dress: (thrifted) xhilaration   Vest: (thrifted) Dollhouse   Bag: Rue 21   Earrings: Philippines   Ring: Etsy   Flats: (thrifted) American Eagle


I can't believe how quick this trip has gone. The three weeks have rushed by, and now I'm desperate to cling  to what little time I have left. I always hate when these visits end, because who knows when I can come back? That's the thing with having family half way around the world. These are the ages I've been to the Philippines to visit, each one lasting about a month in length - 4, 10, 14, 16, and now 18. See the time gap in between each? So much time passes, and everyone is growing and living their life here - one that I'm not a part of. I just regret how I'll appear for a couple weeks randomly, and then disappear for years before I visit and see everyone again. 

Which is why now I've entertained the idea of coming back once I get my Associates degree and stay for a much longer time. I've never had the chance to get to know my family here since I visit for such short periods. But if I did this...well, maybe they wouldn't be such strangers.
Being here always gives me a fresh perspective on things, and I can truly find enjoyment in the simple lifestyle that's lived here. Its hard...but I feel myself growing through the experience. 

Anyway, that's some of what's been on my mind lately.
This is what I wore for a day out in Baguio. I decided to recover my edge with a leather vest and some cool sunglasses. Haha, plus, its been too long since I wore a dress. Everyone here wears jeans (I swear, everyone). But my Aunt told me I look really pretty in a dress and should wear it out, so I decided to stop blending in.

So after recovering from our rapid, two-day road trip, mom and I decided to treat ourselves to a mani-pedi date. I'll admit, I can get used to this kind of treatment. I never get my nails done by someone, because I figure why spend the money on that when I can do it at home for free? But yeah, its nice to get pampered. Afterwards we had a massage, and wow...my shoulders feel so much lighter! 


Haha, so that's my cousin JR. We're rocking our new shades in this photo.
Also, his shirt says Igorotak, and I have the same one in blue. It means "I am an Igorot" and I love wearing it.
I'm proud of my heritage, even if I can only stake half a claim on it. My mother's tribe is something I like knowing I have a part in. After all, who can say they're part of an ex-headhunter tribe? Haha, you should see the museum exhibit on Igorots here! Gruesomely awesome.

60 comments

Mica said...

Such a cute outfit! I really like the printed dress paired with the vest! Glad you are making the most of your trip :)

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aree1997 said...

I really like the vest and ring :D
I don't know why the cool trips end very fast :(

Aree With Umbrella

Julia said...

Love these pictures!! I've been going back and reading a bunch of your entries since I've been rather non-existent the past few months! First of all 1) I <3 you! 2) I saw some great outfit posts in there! and 3) I'm loving all of these updates from the Philippines!

:)
Julia

Ali Hval said...

Awe, Linda! You can't help it that you can't visit super often. Heck, the fact that you all make the effort to get there in the first place is applaud-worthy. You will be visiting again, and I think you know that. :) For now, reflecting on how you've grown from your experiences there and incorporating that into your current lifestyle is what you should be focusing on. And getting that degree, of course! ;) you have your whole life ahead of you lovely.

I adore your vest. I see your style has taken quite the turn. So bold, I love it!

Also, a manipedi date with your mom sounds like the perfect way to end a trip. Hope you're feeling all relaxed now!

Rose-et-Violet said...

I totally know what you mean. I have so much family in India, but I hardly ever get to visit. It's really sad. Hopefully you get to go again!
Anyway, I really love your vest. It's so cute!

-Violet

Mademoiselle Mode said...

I looooove your dress :)

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yiqin; said...

you look great <3

N@NY said...

Great sun glasses , ray ban ones are the best for sure !!

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Alexa said...

pretty printed dress! makes me want summer.

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xo

Sarah Mira Park said...

I love that you paired an edgy vest with that floral dress, I love the contrast!
And I hope you're soaking up every last bit of what the Philippines has to offer, I'd love to be somewhere warm and exotic right now haha!

-Sarah
The Weekend Diary

Jessi said...

I love the leather with the floral. And that photo of you and your cousin is too cute! That would be fun to go live there for a while when you're done with school! I always hate the end of trips and having to go back to the day to day grind.
-Jessi
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Lindsey Elizabeth Pritchard said...

Love the dress, the pattern is very pretty. And your ring is lovely. I love turquoise stone rings.

Lindsey. x
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Lindsey Elizabeth Pritchard said...

Love the dress, the pattern is very pretty. And your ring is lovely. I love turquoise stone rings.

Lindsey. x
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sip-n-wear said...

i totally understand... i wish i can visit korea more often... haven't been since 1999..! i miss it so much and i actually don't think i can go and survive there because its changed so much... anyway... cute cute dress!!!!

Jess Glam Diary said...

Love the print on the dress and the ring is amazing!

xo
- J
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Lucie Srbová said...

You look fantastic! love your dress and leather vest!

Kisses, Lucy :)
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vintagelillies said...

I love your dress, you look so pretty! Great outfit!

anoddgirl said...

gorgeous outfit! I love your vest
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Joyce said...

That is such a pretty floral dress and I love how you wore it with the leather vest! How cool :) And ugh i've always wanted to get a mani-pedi but I am so ticklish that I probably wouldn't be able to get a pedi...

thanias said...

Love how you pair the outfit :)

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thanias said...

Love how you pair the outfit :)

xx,
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SHOP STYLE CONQUER said...

pretty outfit! im just loving the florals!

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Megan, TfDiaries.com said...

love the florals Xo Megan, www.TfDiaries.com

FierceandFashionable said...

Love your outfit, the vest works so well with it!

--Michelle

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Coline Chavaroche said...

Nice outfit !

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Coline Chavaroche said...

Nice outfit !

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Katie Q. said...

Wow, i think this outfit summs up what I loved so much about your style. I love how you balanced really pretty, girly garments like this dress and then you tame it with flats and a really awesome leather jacket. You have such an amazing sense of style and everything you wear seems so very "you", like you're wearing the clothing rather than them wearing you.
I love seeing all of the pictures and your trip and again, I want to hear more about your mother's tribe! It sounds so fascinating, them being former headhunters and all. :)

Maiken said...

gosh, how quickly time flies! you just went there! and now you're starting to leave again. crazy!
but what a lovely outfit that is and I'm glad you decided to wear a dress again. I remember I used to say that was one of the important things I always liked about your outfits :P though of course pants can be great too, there's no question here! oh and that vest is a really cool one!

Maiken,
Maikeni blogi - part of me

Yulie Kendra said...

wow great outfit! i love the vest!!!! Maybe we follow each other!? Let me know :) Greetings www.yuliekendra.com

JANICE G said...

first time seeing u with sunnies! looking great!!! :)

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Joy Shana said...

The dress is cute love the jacket
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Hanna & Christel said...

cute dress!
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febrina utami putri said...

omg linda! you look so pretty in this outfit! floral meets leather vest, what a clever idea :) are you back in states now?

Mia said...

Love so much this mix and details :D


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Megan said...

Cute! Love your metallic flats... and I hate that vacations always fly by so quickly :(

woreout said...

I think your aunt was right you look wonderful in this dress. I like how you added an edgy vibe to this look with your leather vest and new shades. Great mix of feminine and rocker.

life is style said...

hi sweetie, great blog :)
just found you, following now.
hope you do the same!
kisses :)

Sandra Leiva said...

Beautiful dress, dear!
And I love your bag :)))

nuasecruasblog said...

I Love your Jacket!

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Tali
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Kim (A Very Sweet Blog) said...

so glad you had an awesome time! you look great and refreshed. just what you needed. i know it's hard to leave, but you never know what experiences are awaiting you here in the States. you'll get to go back! love your dress. beautiful color and print Linda.
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Stylish By Nature said...

You look a happy young girl !! Love your vest :)

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Sara said...

That dress is gorgeous, especially against such a tropical backdrop! That's totally crazy how your ancestors were head hunters! Bad aaaaaaaa! Hahaha!

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The Braided Bandit said...

This post was so fun to read! I say GO FOR IT living there for a bit after school. But perhaps thats because I just came back from Hawaii and definitely have moving to a nice warm tropical place on the mind! Your dress is too cute!
xo Hannah

Pop Champagne said...

those flats are adorable and totally go with the vest!!

Sam said...

Hi Linda, wow, I also can't believe the time passed by so quickly, it seems like just yesterday when you told us you were leaving on holiday. I like the edginess of the vest with the pretty feminine dress, so charming.

Ashley of Southern (California) Belle said...

I love your dress and that dog is so cute!

xo

Ashley

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ola said...

Happy New Year sweetie! Hope you had a lovely holiday.
xxo

ola
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Katie Aman said...

It's hard when you don't get to see your family as much as you'd like. I have some family I haven't seen in 6 years and they live in the states! Hope you can cherish the time you have left there and you do look quite beautiful in your dress!

Jessica said...

sounds like such an amazing experience! i love the laid back vest over the cute dress

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Dascha said...

You look amazing!! :D

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sonia de macedo said...

Love your outfit, especially the dress and vest together! Stunning!

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f i o n a (miss.tea) said...

Gorgeous fringe bag! I love the whole boho vibe going on :)

f i o n a (miss.tea) said...

Gorgeous fringe bag! I love the whole boho vibe going on :)

SHOP STYLE CONQUER said...

ive already comment on how much i love this outfit and how pretty i think it is, but i just wanted to say thanks for your comment and omg thanks so much for the follow on instagram, got super excited when i saw that cause i just love your blog XD

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SHOP STYLE CONQUER said...

in response to your comment omg thats so exciting that your getting one too! its such an amazing site! what kind of dress did you pick??
Oh and i was just wondering who was the person you had been emailing about the whole collaboration? becuase i had been emailed a lady named sally but for the past week i havent been able to get my emails through to her, so i was just wondering who have you been in contact with?

Kym said...

Oh, lookit, you're all edgy too! It suits you so well! And I love your purse, too...I've been on the hunt for something just like it!

I'm so glad to hear you enjoyed your trip. I cannot wait to see some photos of your grandma's tattoo sleeves. That has got to be amazing.

xo
Kym

Carla Florendo said...

I can totally relate to you... although I'm pure Filipino, my family's been living in Macau since before I was born so I rarely get to see everyone else back in the PI. Sometimes I feel like a stranger to them too.

Btw, I have never been to Baguio. The next time you go back there, I should totally plan a trip to visit you on purpose, haha. And maybe I'll bring along Chezka with me. We both lvoe advetures!

Lali pops of colour said...

I love your outfit! You made me think about visiting my relatives that I haven't seen in a long time as well:)

Lali pops of colour

Lucíanonstop said...

I love your style and your blog :) Thanks for your comment :D I follow you now, maybe we can follow each other ;)

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